Yes, I find him attractive! [That's also a non-issue. The Mighty Nein are shaggable, and he doesn't care if they're aware. Unless someone is gonna do something about it, he doesn't see it as important.] But I find lots of people attractive! It doesn't mean I think it's a good idea to date them. And I have literally never had a problem with his... dirt and whatever. That's not a problem. The problem is that it's been hard enough getting him to trust and tolerate me, and I feel casual flirting might set us back a bit.

[Because look at him, Nott. He has no charisma mod, but he's loud and ostentatious and off-putting. He is not the ringer when you need someone to charm a person unless he's literally using Charm Person.]